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Syed Ali Sher Sultan

Love marriage Expert

Love marriage Expert

Love Marriage VS Arranged Marriage:
Love marriage Expert. A marriage is not just a union of two people but a coming together of two families. An arranged marriage focuses on this family union. While looking for a partner for their son or daughter. Parents will first check if the potential bride or groom’s family is compatible to theirs. Do they share the same background (cultural and religious), socio-economic status, level of education, similar values? If so, they feel they can safely marry their son or daughter into this family. And live a life quite similar to their parents. Security and stability. Seem to be the most valued things looked for in an arranged marriage.

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While this might seem like an unemotional way to go about it, the value of a stable marriage is undeniable. Perhaps this could be one of the reasons why India has such a low divorce rate.
Critics of arranged marriage would say that not enough. Importance is given in such marriages to couple feels about each other. Emotional and physically compatibility is overlooked in favors of practical considerations. If you say ‘I don’t feel anything for him/her’, family members might respond saying love will grow in time’. Another drawback is that the couple might not have enough time to get to know each other. Understand each other’s feelings, values and opinions, about different issues. So, once the wedding happens, there is a tremendous need for adjustment. Each partner will have to learn to understand and accommodate the other. And begin to appreciate the good things in the relationship.

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When I talk to people who are about to get into an arranged marriage, I often sense that many of them feel a strong sense of obligation and duty to their parents. They feel that they HAVE to accept their parents’ choice of a life partner for them. To do otherwise seems to be perceived as disrespectful to their parents and a betrayal to their family. Sometimes such people enter a marriage in which they know they will be unhappy just so that their parents are happy. On the other hand love marriage is also often misunderstood an expression of freedom or rebelling against one’s parents. Finding a balance between one’s own desires and satisfying our parents’ wishes is a hard task which we all struggle with.

Love Marriage:
On the surface, love marriage seems perfect. We find our soul mates, get married and live happily ever after. What can possible go wrong? Many things, actually. As F. Scott Peck says, ‘Love is not effortless. On the contrary, it is effortful’. A love marriage needs as much work as an arranged marriage. It has its own share of strains. Some times By the fact that we have to take full responsibility for our choice of a partner. We don’t have our parents or any others to blame if it doesn’t work. And living together is a whole new experience which will have its own ups and downs. On the other hand, a love marriage allows us to freely choose our mate. To find someone we are intellectually, emotionally and physically attracted to.

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We can build a life with them on our terms and make our own happiness.
A statistic says that love in an arranged marriage apparently reaches its peak. In contrast the peak of a love marriage. We would have already reached out before this time and started waning. This could be because people enter love marriages with a lot of expectations. The most common one is that those passionate, romantic feelings. You are feeling now will stay the same for the rest of your lives. After the first few months. When the honeymoon stage is over and the mundane realities of marriage have set in

people begin to feel dissatisfied wondering. In contrast one might enter an arranged marriage with much lower expectations and not expect everything to work out immediately.

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There is no perfect formula to make a marriage work. Both arranged and love marriages have their own strengths and faults. Many of us might currently be facing issues, choose between arranged or love marriages. Resolving our own fears about marriage, wondering what to expect in a marriage etc. If you have been struggling with these or similar issues for a while. And talking to friends or family members has not been enough, you might consider talking to a counselor. It could help you look at the issue with new eyes. And develop more awareness of your own opinions and priorities.

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